The word LOVE has many different meanings in the Greek and are all translated into English without making a distinction.
EROS: From which we get the word erotic and is never used in the Bible. It has to do with the love between a man and woman which embraces longing, craving, and desire. We can love each other without having the ultimate love. Usually has sexual overtones, a need love.
STERGO: is only used 3 times in the New Testament and means love of kindred, especially of parents for children and children or parents. Love between husband and wife and for others of close kindred. A love of family. Can still be lacking the ultimate love.
PHILEO: mainly denotes the attraction of people to one another who are close together both inside and outside the family. It is a love of liking, an affection for someone or something that is the outgoing of one’s heart in delight to that which affords pleasure. It includes, concern, care, and hospitality to others and many times is a friendly love between members of the body of Christ. However, as good as it is, we can still lack the ultimate true love of:
AGAPAO: The noun form is agape. “it is a love called out of a person’s heart by an awakened sense of value in an object which causes one to prize it.” Love of approbation and esteem. A love that recognizes the worthiness of the object loved. This love is the soul’s sense of value and preciousness of its object. (Wuest)
Join Ginger as she opens our hearts to the wonders of “true love.” Hope it will create in you the hunger to live a life well pleasing. Agape love is the love the Father desires we all mature in; with nothing lacking. “We love Him because He first loved us.” Happy Valentine Day.